Amoy y otras cosas: What to Do to Stop Waiting for That Message

José Luis López Velarde tells you how to stop waiting for that text message.

Today’s world is very digital, and communication has taken on a breathtaking immediacy and importance.

Perhaps the way to eliminate anxiety over this is a little self-analysis.

In the vast universe of our daily interactions, there’s a moment of stillness that often consumes us: waiting for a text message from someone specific.

That small electronic alert symbolizes a bond, a concern, or a whisper of affection from a distance.

The anxiety that arises while waiting for a simple greeting or an «I miss you» can be intense and often uncontrollable. But what do you do when the long-awaited message doesn’t arrive?

Today on «Amor y Otras Cosas,» José Luis López Velarde, a master in the psychology of love and sex, offers us a beacon of wisdom to navigate these emotional waters.

Inside You

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It’s not about tracing the origin of our restlessness but rather learning to stop it and finding healthier substitutes for our wait.

The advice that resonates at the core of our discussion is to build an existence that is intrinsically satisfying.

A life where happiness is not a visitor we wait for but a tenant that lives permanently in the home of our daily experience.

When your life is filled with passions and inspiring people, the absence of a message becomes a minor detail, not a defining event.

A Message of Balance

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José Luis shares with us a technique proven over the years for those who do not lead the conquest of love.

It is the dance of two steps back and one forward, a balance between showing interest and maintaining our dignity. This interplay ensures that we hold our ground without falling into despair.

He also addresses the importance of communication and persuasion, tools that can be crucial for changing the dynamics of a stagnant relationship.

And if you find yourself in an emotional dead-end, seeking honest feedback is essential for growth and improvement in future connections.

Our Worth

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Beyond the other’s response, José Luis emphasizes the importance of staying true to oneself, of being the best possible version regardless of circumstances.

Our value is not found in disdain but in the integrity of our character and the warmth of our interactions with others.

For those in the courtship phase, he suggests a diversified approach to interactions.

By not focusing all our emotional attention on one person, we protect ourselves from disappointment and allow ourselves to move forward gracefully.

That Necessary Message

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And for those in a relationship, he stresses the shared responsibility in managing emotions, a task that requires communication and mutual understanding.

Lastly, he invites us to adopt a gradual approach in applying these concepts to our love life. By implementing one change at a time, we can transform our emotional reality over the course of a year.

With these thoughts and strategies, «Amor y Otras Cosas» promises to be a valuable resource for all those looking to strengthen their emotional and romantic lives.

So, it’s not about the text message, but what’s going on inside you and what you’re doing. José Luis López Velarde bids you farewell and hopes this information will be useful to you. Until next time!