Amor y otras cosas: How to Make Someone Miss You

• Amor y otras cosas discusses an intriguing topic: how to make someone deeply miss you.
• Jorge Luis López Velarde provides a couple of strategies to achieve this.
• It’s about something that helps the couple, not separates them.

What does it really mean to make someone miss you? It’s a gentle balance between desire and satisfaction, a sweet and sad dance that happens on the path toward aware love.

Once you understand the deepness of this concept, not only will you become more good at making that feeling in others, but you will also gain more understanding and understanding of your own feelings.

The art of missing deeply includes finding a balance between desire and satisfaction.

When someone is attracted to you without deeply knowing you, they are actually putting their own hopes and desires onto you.

The Deepest Level of a Person

This is common in non-romantic loves, where the person only sees the surface and does not know the real core of the other.

For someone to truly miss you, they must know you at a deeper level and be aware of what you bring to their lives.

Here lies the key to today’s topic: how can you meet that person’s needs in their reality?

We all need love in some part of our lives, regardless of our self-esteem or how many people around us who love us. Love is endless and can continue to grow.

Taking a Moment Apart to Miss Each Other

The key is to identify where love is lacking or where it can be added to that person’s life. Where do they feel most vulnerable? In which part of their reality can you deposit more love?

It could be simple gestures, like a silent hug or a sincere compliment that makes a difference in their day.

Autonomy in a relationship is essential to keep the spark of desire alive. Sometimes separation and next reunion make the necessary excitement to deepen the connection and desire in the relationship.

This dance between being present and absent, sweet and bitter, makes richer the bond and makes it deeper.

The Reunion

As couples get more comfortable, they sometimes forget the need for a little space. It’s basic to keep in mind that wanting each other can increase when they spend some time apart and get back together.

This idea works for romantic couples and all kinds of relationships between people.

A good way to make someone miss you is to remind them of special times you shared.

For instance, if you had a heartfelt chat, you could send a voice message saying how much that talk meant to you and how it made a positive impact on your life.

How to Make Them Miss You

Then, withdraw and leave space for desire to grow in your absence.

The logic behind this is to create a deep emotional connection, remember it, and then withdraw for a bit to keep the desire alive.

When you finally come back together, the desire will be at its peak, making richer the relationship.

Lastly, Jorge Luis shares a phrase that can change your relationships: «What is most important to you about that?»

A Connection with Someone

This question allows you to delve into the mind and heart of the other person, finding what really matters to them in a given situation.

You can apply this question not only in romantic ways but also in your daily talks with family, friends, and colleagues.

The key is to learn to touch sensitive strings and allow the other person to express their deepest emotions and thoughts.

When someone feels they can open up to you in this way, the connection deepens a lot, and they are likely to miss you at levels you never imagined. Jorge Luis López Velarde thanks you for your attention. See you soon!